A Witch Without A Broom

"A Witch Without A Broom" represents those who don't fit in, conform, or follow the masses and lead their path with intuition, authority, self-awareness, truth, and alignment with their Selves.

My path to guiding you to self-empowerment is rooted in trauma-informed guidance and rooted in my lived experience. The support I provide is grounded and integrated for everyday life.

I have dedicated myself to self-healing, self-awareness, self-empowerment, alignment and expression since 2019.

I have learned to love, respect, and trust myself, share my truth, and ground myself in alignment with who I desire to be regardless of how the world perceives me.

The path of self-healing is not easy and it doesn't promise a perfect life, but it is the most freeing.

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My Favorite Pieces

My partner is currently learning this with his anger.

He can feel angry and communicate that and process that without using me as the punching bag

Him regulating his anger is not about suppressing how he feels but being able to sit in the emotion and express himself from a grounded place instead of an activated one

I offer guidance and support. If you're interested, the link is my bio.
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I used to get attached in love so fast.

Now I realize it's because I experienced emotional neglect and abandoned in childhood and didn't know how to love myself.

The moment someone showed me love, I wanted to hold on and never let them go. I called it obsession but it was really fear of abandonment and rejection.

Then I started healing and loving myself and I went to the other extreme.

I protected my healing path obsessively, scared of losing myself again. I pushed people away and I set boundaries that kept my heart protected.

Neither makes space for real, healthy love.

I had to learn how to trust myself and be ok if they left.

You can achieve this too 🖤

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If you need guidance or support, fill out the guidance intake form in my bio 🖤

10 mini guidance sessions available every month! Book your spot. Link in bio

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The mother wound is reflected in how you feel about yourself

It's in how how you love and value yourself

It shows up in how you respect and speak up for yourself

As a child, I was never shown any of that

Everything I know about myself and how to show up for myself was self-taught

My entire life, I was bullied, abused and taken advantage of

So was my mom

I never learned that I mattered and that I deserved to be loved

When I became a mother, I struggled emotionally

I learned how to mother by reparenting my own inner child the way my mother never did

🖤If you have a strained relationship with your mother, or are estranged from her, or you have lost her, you can find support through my guidance sessions

🖤Fill out the intake form in ghe link in my bio

🖤 Every month, I provide free mini guidance sessions. 10 spots available.

🖤 Book a full session for 111$

All guidance is email-based, private, and grounded.

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This is the curse of the one who cares too damn much or understands the psychology of people's behaviours.

Just because you understand, doesn't mean to abandon yourself.

You're not the one that needs to be held accountable for being pushed too far.

As kids, when we get bullied or abused and we react, we're forced to apologize. You learn early that protecting yourself or standing up for yourself is wrong.

It teaches you to abandon yourself, makes you feel unworthy of protection and makes you think that maybe you deserved it.

FUCK THAT

If I react because my nervous system felt so threatened by your behaviour, I'm not apologizing for that.

I'm proud of myself for not shutting down and breaking my cycles of conditioning.

I always compare verbal or emotional abuse to physical abuse because to me it's the same.

If someone started hitting you, would you protect yourself or let them beat on you ?

If you're someone who needs support with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and guilt, fill out the guidance intake form in the link in my bio and let's get started so that you can feel empowered in rewriting your story!

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#noapologies

Just do itttttttttt 🙌

And you know what, if there's parts that don't go amazing, that's okay too

Just keep being you, keeping showing up in your truth and integrity.

We can't please everyone but that'll never mean you're not good at what you do.

Just means you're not everyone's cup of coffee 🤷‍♀️

Is there something you've been wanting to do?

What's holding you back?

My DM'S are now open to free mini guidance sessions for 10 people this month! 1 session per person.

Full guidance sessions are available in the link in my bio ✨️

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My inner child craved freedom, play, expression, and imperfection for so long

When I finally gave her permission, she bloomed, stepped out of the shadows and gained the confidence to live her truth no matter what the outside world thought of her

Perfectionism kept her hiding
Fear of rejection and judgment scared her
Yearning for validation distorted her true identity

I held her hand and said, "let's play and do it our way!"

She trusted me
She felt safe to explore, try new things and express herself through emotion

She stepped out of the box the world caged her in and crushed it to ashes

Together, we choose who we are, ehat we do and how we do it

Even if the world objects

If you are someone stuck in perfectionism, anxiety, and fear, and want to finally break free, my guidance sessions are for you. Comment GUIDANCE or visit the link in my bio to book a session today.

***My dms are also now open to 1 free mini guidance session per person per month (includes 1 question). Limited to 50 messages. get a peek into how it is to work with me before you invest 🖤

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Sometimes, things happen that we cannot control and the only thing we can do is heal our wounds and find away to move on

Other times, it's on us

It's hard to admit that but take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself, "what advice would I give my daughter?"

Would I tell her she's unlovable, powerless, and stuck in these dynamics forever?

Or would I tell her to choose herself, love herself, and make choices that align with what she wants?

Say no. Take a break. Walk away. Set boundaries.

Be honest and accountable.

I call myself out on my own shit just as much as I call out anyone else.

I don't always like it.

Sometimes, I get upset, scared, or anxious. Other times, I let my pride keep me stuck.

I can lie to everyone else but I can't lie to myself.

Often we struggle to be honest, because we tend to judge ourselves and shame ourselves, and people will do that too.

Honesty can only survive within a safe space, compassion for humanness, an unconditional love.

If this is something you struggle with, my email base guidance sessions can help. Link is in my bio 🖤

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*** My DMs are open for 1 free guidance question per person. Limited to the first 50 messages.

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Boundaries are reflections of self-love, self-respect, and self-care

It's not selfish

The only people who will punish you for having boundaries ade the ones that were benefitting from your self-abandonment

I'd rather lose people than lose myself

Self-abandonment and people-pleasing are big causes of depression.

You're telling your system that it is unworthy, creating an unsafe environment by allowing people to mistreat you, and not living in alignment with your truth.

I have abandonment trauma yet I spent 20 years abandoning myself.

Healing starts with you 🖤

If you need guidance around setting boundaries, I can help. Comment GUIDANCE for the link.

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And this is why my healing guidance is email-based.

My energy couldn't handle 1:1.

I'm aware of this and know my limitations so instead of abandoning myself and ripping you off, I offer you guidance and readings where I can deliver what you need: honesty, clarity, emotional intelligence, and grounding.

When I guide, the focus is on you.

Your experiences, fears, patterns, thoughts, relationships, etc because the whole point is for you to walk away from a session feeling clearer, more confident in your choices, more grounded and aligned to your truth, and trust yourself enough to feel safe again.

I spent many nights crying myself to sleep, feeling the walls of my life closing in on me and suffocating the breath out of me for too long. I understand the pain, fear, and feeling incapable.

Shit still happens, it's life, but now I have options and choices. And when I can't physically do something about it, I change my perspective and find a way around it.

If you're ready to get up off that floor, reach out. You deserve to feel capable of living your life.

Comment GUIDANCE and I'll send you the link directly!

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I used to argue, reason, explain

FUCK THAT

I know better now

Some people are just not worth our energy

Silence is a power move, not weakness or you avoiding confrontation.

There's a difference between standing up for yourself and defending yourself.

Same shit on social media, blocking is my way of setting that boundary and saying, "ya, I respect myself too damn much for you to be disrespecting me."

I already know who I am. I know my flaws, faults, the reason for my choices, and how I carry myself in the world. There's nothing anyone can throw at me to trigger me into a reaction.

Don't project your shit onto me.

Conversation over.

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I make more than products

I make healing companions

Embodied truths

Reminders of your inner power

Reflections of your true identity

Energetic safe spaces

Mirrors of your path

When you buy from me, you're not just supporting me, you're investing in yourself

You deserve to be taken care of 🖤

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Off to Montreal for a family day trip 🤗

Even though we're not financial rich, we make sure we still make time and money to get out of the damn house.

Winter's coming anyway, there'll be plenty of time to put money on that credit card. I refuse to let life take from me.

Feeling a little better today energy-wise 😌

Sometimes, you just gotta shut everything off and let the emotions pass through. I've learned not to hold to anything my body needs to feel.

Things the energy I bring into my guidance sessions. Practical, grounded guidance meant for real life.

If you're feeling powerless in your life, give my sessions a try. DM "guidance" for the link.

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This song melts all my worries 🫠

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Burn out is not weakness or laziness
It's your body telling the truth

My inner peace demands clarity and action

Roommates can't do their part ? Bye, I don't need your money

Partners not acting right? Cool, you can lose access to me too cuz I'm busy doing what you aren't

Jobs acting like your value ain't shit? Bye to you too, bunch of abusers and enablers. I got me

Living in a house where rent's more than half of two incomes, bet I'll find a way to get the fuck out

I've been patient, understanding, and compassionate. Now my body's like, we gotta get real

I'd rather have to do more on my own than stress over shit that doesn't have my back

Stepping into Queen of Swords and wands energy ✨️

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For years, I thought, "I should've never been a mother"

I resented the role: the demands, the availability required, the rules, the discipline, the feeling of "being just a mom", and everything sitting on my shoulders.

In the mom role, I was blind to their hummanness.

It was a job and a responsibility I had to carry out

I adopted the, "I'm the adult and you're the child" mindset.

I hated every minute of it

So I took the hat off

My mind shift is unconventional
Controversial
Misunderstood

But I don't care

Since I changed how I parent, I am better for it. For them.

I don't discipline anymore. I don't have to.

Respect is mutual
Boundaries are mutual
Communication is mutual
Privacy is mutual
Understanding is mutual
Compassion is mutual
Support is mutual
Acceptance of our differences is mutual

We are not better or less than one another

We're humans navigating life, learning and growing side by side

Motherhood doesn't have to be hard, relentless, scary, or stressful

I've learned that kids just want love, support, understanding, space, freedom to make mistakes

As their human guide, I remember what it was like to grow up although my parents were narcissistic and authoritarian

My girls and I are the closest we've ever been, even when we disagree, or set boundaries, or need space

If you're a mother and have been feeling stuck, tired, resentful, or feel lost in how to navigate your role and relationship with your kids, my email-based guidance sessions could help. Comment GUIDANCE and I'll send you the link directly 🙂

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I used to waste so many days spiralling in negativity because I felt like a failure or less than because my body and mind couldn't keep up

Now, I practice acceptance and gratitude

I don't make a schedule
Or post daily
Or show up consistently

Because I can't

And that's okay

I've been through hell and back

Of course, my system runs differently

I wake up and gauge my energy and capacity levels

If I can't do big things, I do little things

Like putting away the cat food, doing dishes, or checking the mailbox

What I can't do today, I'll do better tomorrow when I have mor energy and clarity

Give yourself permission

If you relate to my voice and my grounded trauma-informed approach, comment GUIDANCE to explore my email-based guidance sessions with me

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Creativity saved me 7 years ago

Then I worked a full time & part time job and didn't have time or energy

Creating and pouring myself into something that doesn't exist yet and allowing myself to do it my way makes me feel empowered

In the past I struggled with the shoulds and rules of society and then I asked myself, "where the f*ck do these rules even come from???"

When people ask, "why did u do it like that?

I have two answers:

"Because I wanted to"
"Because that's what my body wanted"

Nothing is a mistake when I create

When you create that safe space for yourself, trust yourself and accept all of yourself, the noise isn't so loud anymore.

The only voice you hear is your own

You're not as stuck as you think

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If you're feeling stuck, powerless, scared, or like there's no way out and would benefit from guidance sessions, comment GUIDANCE and I'll send you the link directly 😉

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When life is loud

I get off my phone and go sit with the ducks 🦆🦆

What do you do when your nervous system needs a breath?

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Self-awareness can sometimes keep you stuck in your head where you overcontextualize what you should be feeling.

There needs to be a balance, a relationship between your mind, body and heart.

Self-awareness is a tool in understanding yourself but when you get stuck on understanding, your body doesn't get to feel through things and your heart gets confused.

Your body says, I need to feel this to then release it and your mind says, nvm feeling it!

We don't need to feel what we already understand."

Our feelings are messengers and self-awareness allows us to listen and navigate the feelings in a healthy way.

Reflections for today:

What is showing up in your life right now that you could be more flexible about or let go?

In our email-based guidance sessions, I ask the questions you may be avoiding. Growth comes when we can be honest with ourselves.

Comment GUIDANCE to receive the link. Invest in yourself with trauma-informed, compassionate, honest guidance.

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As someone who has suffered at the hands of others, I don't hold resentment, anger, or wishes for their own suffering.

People who harm others are already suffering and have been victims too.

As a victim, I chose to forgive and heal my wounds as to not hurt others.

They deserve the same chance.

I wish the ones who have caused me pain, healing and inner peace, so that the suffering can stop with me and they can break the cycle.

If you're still holding onto hate, don't you hope they heal so that nobody else has to suffer the way you have?

If you're someone who has caused pain and are now walking the healing path, keep going. You and everyone who crosses your path, deserve love and safety.

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Through my email-based guidance, this is the energy you will receive. Trauma-informed, compassionate, yet honest.

If you're interested in a session, comment GUIDANCE, and I'll send you the link directly 🙏

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This is exactly what I needed 🌳☀️🌊

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When my nervous system and body can't breathe

And everything feels impossible

I go outside

Where my body feels safe again
Capable
Calm

I allow the water, the wind and sky to hold what I can't

I breathe and move with the songs of the birds
Free

Like a game of monopoly that I can walk away from for a while

Sometimes, there's nothing you can actually do
But you can create a moment for yourself

A moment of peace, joy, and safety

Save the video for those moments where you need a break from life

Watch it on your lunch break, at a stressful family event, while sitting in a crowded bus, or in the bathroom in your full house.

Let it transport you back into your body.

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When I first started healing, I had to reflect on my behaviors.

Am I making this choice to protect my peace, to feel safe, or to make time for myself?

Or am I making this choice to hurt, punish, or get revenge?

Is it coming from a place of peace or a place of pain?

Anyone can say: It's for my health.

But when you can reflect honestly, you can be accountable for your own harmful behaviors.

Strength comes with responsibility.

Don't forget how strong you are under all that noise. You're not powerless.

"Sometimes we have control to change the circumstances. When we don't, our control is found inward." - Michelle

If you resonate with my work and are looking for trauma-informed healing support, comment HEALING, and I'll send you the link directly.

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I thought I was a lost cause

I didn't understand trauma, conditioning, childhood trauma, trauma responses, etc.

The only language I had was "depression", "anxiety", "abuse".

I learned by shifting my focus to myself.

I researched, focused what I could control, and set boundaries to anything that wasn't for me.

Reparenting my inner child was a big part of my healing. I got to know her, we explored, we laughed, cried, faced our fears, and stood up for ourselves.

Every choice we made towards recovery, empowerment, self-awareness, and alignment empowered us little by little.

Everything we did for ourselves shifted how we view and handle the world outside.

Where I once wished pain on my abusers, I wish them healing because then it means the cycle stops with me.

My tarot readings are infused with trauma-informed insights and healing wisdom born from my lived experiences.

If you would like to explore your healing journey with the support of a tarot reading, comment HEALING on this post and I'll send you the link directly 😊

You're not a lost cause. You just don't have the tools yet 🙏

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Mothers are shamed everyday for their outlook and feelings on motherhood.

My past interfered with how I showed up for my kids, so I healed and changed my relationship with the role for the wellbeing of my children.

Doing so, gave them a safe space to be human. It supported their individuality, development, and growth.

If you struggle in motherhood, feeling unheard and invalidated, looking for a new way to mother, give it a read 🖤

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The other day, I shared my truth based on my personal experience and shared my perspective on that experience.

The amount of backlash, attacks, bullying, and abuse I received was overwhelming.

I have not heard such vile words in a long time, then again, I have been silenced for a very long time as well.

People seem to confuse what being trauma-informed means, so I wrote a blog article about what it means and how it is integrated into my work.

I welcome everyone's truth, even if it is different than mine or I disagree. Everyone has a right to share their story.

But, my space is rooted in being grounded, self-aware, honest, and respectful.

I will never tolerate abuse and bullying. Boundaries will be set in the form of blocking.

If you are triggered by something that I share, I welcome a grounded discussion in my dm's, keeping in mind that triggers are reflections of our own healing.

I'm not perfect. I have accepted that I am human a long time ago but the beauty of our truths is just that, it's ours, and we have every right to share them, without shaming, defamation of someone's identity, or bullying them publicly.

Note: Shedding light on a toxic behavior is not the same as shaming someone.

If you are interested in reading the blog article, visit my website and click on BLOG on the homepage.

Browse the website too and get to know me!

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People reacting to your truth is not a reflection of you.

It's a reflection of themselves in the mirror you're holding up and they may not like what they see.

Too bad.

You have a right to speak your truth.
It's yours to share.

My rules in sharing my truth are:

- Protect their identity (it's not about hurting them)

- Be accountable for your part in the story

- Share from a grounded place, not an emotionally reactive one

- Share for the sake of awareness and shedding a light on harmful behaviors and patterns (not to be right)

- Accept that others will disagree and it doesn't invalidate your truth, your experience, your pain, and your perspective

If everyone's truth was the same, we'd either have a collapsing world or a perfect world. Neither is the reality.

Keep doing you. Your story deserves to be heard.

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We were both imperfect, unhealed and navigating a rocky relationship, especially as coparents.

Sometimes, I wonder if I would've been more forgiving, more understanding and spent less time dehumanizing him, things could've been different. Healthier.

If you're a single parent, struggling with coparenting but would like to focus on healing, connection, and civility for the sake of your child, and would like to explore an email-based guidance session with me, comment COPARENTING and I'll send you the link directly 🖤

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I'm a mom too.

I've felt the anger too

The rage

Wanting to point the finger and hold them accountable

Not being able to forgive

I've withheld visitations too

BUT, my kids' wellbeing was ALWAYS my motive

Despite the pain

The abuse towards me

The lies about me

The blame put onto me

Their past mistakes

I couldn't deny my kids their father

I had to put my own ego aside and I HATED it

I wanted to hold on to their failures

But I trusted that my kids would see their truth eventually, whether it was good or bad, and for my kids' sakes, I prayed the dads would succeed

Withholding visitations because he wouldn't give you the next month's support early to pay your rent is NOT a valid reason to hurt your child and rip away his time with his father

At the end of the day, it's not about you

It's about your child

If you’re a single mom or a dad, navigating co-parenting, healing and learning how to co-parent without drama, my email-based guidance could be a great way for us to work through it together.

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