Returning to ourselves is like coming back home and building a fortress. Every day, we leave home to go into the world, visit others' homes, and maybe spend a few nights in hotels. Sometimes we bring other people's beliefs, fears, coping methods, and baggage back home, and it becomes clutter that doesn't belong to us. Sometimes, home gets lonely, so we invite people in, but without rules, some people start breaking things, sleeping over without an invitation, dumping their ga